What is your marriage made of? That isn’t a question you have ever been asked before, right? Well, a good question is a vital tool in your marital arsenal. Use questions and use them often! It is the only way to grow together and learn your mate. Before asking any question, it’s good to know the substance of your character and your mate’s character. If you enter marriage under frivolous or superficial reasoning's, you have set your marriage up for failure before it even starts.
Be wise and ask questions. Lots of questions. Deep questions. Surface-level questions, funny questions, serious questions. Ask any type of question! Yes, ask questions, but please make sure you gain answers. Here is the best question you can ask yourself: Are we marriage material?
Please do not think you are marriage material just because someone asked you to marry them or because someone agreed to marry you. No, anyone can get married. We also hope you will not think you’ll walk away and suddenly become marriage material just because you began reading this quote. Nope! There are lackluster marriages all around. In fact, you have seen some—within your family, among your friends, even at work. However, your goal is to walk into your marriage with the sole purpose of understanding what your mate is made of. Then ask one another...Are We Marriage Material?